12 signs you LOVE someone

12 signs you LOVE someone




TWELVE:
When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.




ELEVEN:
You walk really slow when you're with them.




TEN:
You feel shy whenever they're around.




NINE:
You smile when you hear their voice.



EIGHT:
When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you, you just see him/her.



SIX:
They're all you think about.




FIVE:
You realize you're always smiling when you're looking at them.




FOUR:
You would do anything for them, just to see them.




THREE:
While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.




TWO:
You were so busy thinking about that person, you didn't notice number seven was missing




ONE:
You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself

Love and Trust

A loving relationship is ideally the closest relationship two people can have with another person. Closeness means intimate knowledge. And intimate knowledge is dependent upon honesty, openness & communicativeness. For some people, lack of eloquence or lack of capacity for self-expression creates a barrier -- a barrier which is more forgivable than intent to conceil.
Open communication is a risky matter. People who have nothing they are ashamed-of in their live are more likely to be shameless liers & brutes than people of exemplary conduct. Telling deeds of misconduct to a beloved risks loss of trust and loss of love. Any person who can feel the riskiness of self-revelation for themselves can surely "cut some slack" in appreciating that their partner would have similar fear.
The situation is quite different, however, when evidence becomes undeniable of premeditated deception or theft. The ego & heart are wounded by such betrayal -- love can quickly turn to hate mixed with grief. A single revelation can suddenly illuminate a pattern of deception & manipulation through the whole history of the relationship -- and/or raise suspicions.
The desire to love entails a desire to believe in the lovability of the beloved. Love can easily be blind -- facts are interpreted through the "rose-colored glasses" of wishful thinking. Denial of facts may continue for a remarkably long time -- sometimes indefinitely. Hopes, dreams & plans are not easily relinquished. Remorse by the offender and forgiveness by the victim can sometimes lead to redemption -- but this is more often the exception than the rule.
Others -- especially those with a history of having been betrayed -- may err in the opposite direction. Incessant suspicion, distrust and resentment associated with imagined betrayals can poison the possibilities for love. Pre-emptive, self-protective disbelief in the trustworthiness of a prospective partner can destroy the potential for a relationship. (The same can be said for a suspicious ego that pre-emptively resents and/or rejects a potential lover on grounds that love might not be reciprocated.)
Trust can be violated by failures of competence -- such as forgetfulness or clumsiness -- as well as by conscious deception or betrayal. Although it is easier to forgive good intentions, any source of predictable lack of dependability undermines trust. It is normal that people love their children without trusting in their children's competence (or good judgement or even integrity). Some people have the capacity to love without trust of any kind. Whether such people are big-hearted or foolish cannot be answered
objectively -- it is a subjective matter. unconditional love can be a warm security blanket, but it is also not a tribute to lovability or worth. Love that does not discriminate good from "evil" is an undeserved reward.

If u r not finding love use bait

There is a frequently recurring theme shared by too many people: unhappiness because they can't find someone to love them. Take a close look and see if this is you, then look around and you'll see that you're not alone.

But these times in your life when you're single can be an excellent resource if you're willing to use it. Life is about experiencing, learning, growing. So get out there and grow! Take this time to learn a new skill.

Wouldn't you be more attractive to someone if you knew how to cook a great dish or two? Couldn't your first conversations be more memorable if you developed comfort with public speaking? Take the time to figure out how to do simple auto repair, seek out a wine club and learn a few fundamentals that might make you appear more sophisticated. Guess what: you'll have become more sophisticated!

Read more, and read a variety of different types of books. Learn more, acquire skills that will increase your value in the eyes of others as well as yourself.

Become more complete and you will become more attractive. Trust me, it works. But the greatest part is that you will learn to appreciate yourself even more and thus rely less on needing the acknowledgements of others to create self-worth.